BETH JANNERY

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Beth Jannery is author of several non-fiction books. She teaches writing and communication at George Mason University. Beth is available for freelance writing & editing projects. Call: 860.798.2847 www.BethJannery.com

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Wednesday, December 31, 2008

Slow Down You Crazy Child


People have told me to take off my rose colored glasses since I first moved to Washington DC in 1991 when I began my

communications career at CNN. I wore my optimism on my sleeve, and I do to this day. Many times I was told to: "Slow down you crazy child You're so ambitious for a juvenile...."

Wouldn't I rather be disappointed and never give up than to give up without ever taking a risk. Always turning any setbacks or disappointment into a growth experience. Whenever there is pain, or a lack of comfort, there is an opportunity there.

The energy here in the nation's capitol captivated and captured me. It does to this day. I breathe it in, sometimes I left to move out to the country for a quiet retreat - to Connecticut, to New York, but always back again.

Again starting on a new path - a career change - having another book released in 2009and returning to the woman I once was becoming. It is a beautiful thing and my rose glasses are back on - big lenses to look at the world. Damn, it is a good life.

These lyrics to Billy Joel's song Vienna have always touched me in that sometimes unreachable place we all protect and nurture. Again, I'm revisiting this inner fire and won't let it go this time.

18 years later, excitement in the air as we transition power without bloodshed, let's appreciate optimism, hope and a the sunshine. Won't you put your glasses back on?

Slow down you crazy child
You're so ambitious for a juvenile
But then if you're so smart tell me why
Are you still so afraid?
Where's the fire, what's the hurry about?
You better cool it off before you burn it out
You got so much to do and only
So many hours in a day

But you know that when the truth is told
That you can get what you want
Or you can just get old
You're gonna kick off before you even get halfway through
When will you realize...Vienna waits for you

Slow down you're doing fine
You can't be everything you want to be
Before your time
Although it's so romantic on the borderline tonight (tonight)
Too bad but it's the life you lead
You're so ahead of yourself
That you forgot what you need
Though you can see when you're wrong
You know you can't always see when you're right(you're right)

You got your passion you got your pride
But don't you know that only fools are satisfied?
Dream on but don't imagine they'll all come true
When will you realize
Vienna waits for you

Slow down you crazy child
Take the phone off the hook and disappear for a while
It's alright you can afford to lose a day or two
When will you realize...
Vienna waits for you.

And you know that when the truth is told
That you can get what you want
Or you can just get old
You're gonna kick off before you even get halfway through

Why don't you realize...Vienna waits for you
When will you realize...Vienna waits for you

2009 Inspiration - Time to Change the Road You Are On



Hold on to this for your new year.







Yes, there are two paths you can go by, but in the long run
There's still time to change the road you're on.
And it makes me wonder.


from the strangest source: lyrics, stairway to heaven

Sunday, December 28, 2008


The Complete List of the Top 100 Novels
See how many you've read.

A - B
The Adventures of Augie March
Saul Bellow

All the King's Men
Robert Penn Warren
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American Pastoral
Philip Roth
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An American Tragedy
Theodore Dreiser

Animal Farm
George Orwell
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Appointment in Samarra
John O'Hara
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Are You There God? It's Me, Margaret
Judy Blume

The Assistant
Bernard Malamud
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At Swim-Two-Birds
Flann O'Brien

Atonement
Ian McEwan
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Beloved
Toni Morrison
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The Berlin Stories
Christopher Isherwood
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The Big Sleep
Raymond Chandler
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The Blind Assassin
Margaret Atwood
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Blood Meridian
Cormac McCarthy

Brideshead Revisited
Evelyn Waugh
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The Bridge of San Luis Rey
Thornton Wilder
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C - D
Call It Sleep
Henry Roth
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Catch-22
Joseph Heller
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The Catcher in the Rye
J.D. Salinger
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A Clockwork Orange
Anthony Burgess
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The Confessions of Nat Turner
William Styron
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The Corrections
Jonathan Franzen
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The Crying of Lot 49
Thomas Pynchon
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A Dance to the Music of Time
Anthony Powell
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The Day of the Locust
Nathanael West
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Death Comes for the Archbishop
Willa Cather

A Death in the Family
James Agee

The Death of the Heart
Elizabeth Bowen
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Deliverance
James Dickey
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Dog Soldiers
Robert Stone
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F - G
Falconer
John Cheever
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The French Lieutenant's Woman
John Fowles
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The Golden Notebook
Doris Lessing
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Go Tell it on the Mountain
James Baldwin
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Gone With the Wind
Margaret Mitchell
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The Grapes of Wrath
John Steinbeck
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Gravity's Rainbow
Thomas Pynchon
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The Great Gatsby
F. Scott Fitzgerald
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H - I
A Handful of Dust
Evelyn Waugh
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The Heart Is A Lonely Hunter
Carson McCullers
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The Heart of the Matter
Graham Greene

Herzog
Saul Bellow
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Housekeeping
Marilynne Robinson
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A House for Mr. Biswas
V.S. Naipaul
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I, Claudius
Robert Graves
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Infinite Jest
David Foster Wallace
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Invisible Man
Ralph Ellison
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L - N
Light in August
William Faulkner
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The Lion, The Witch and the Wardrobe
C.S. Lewis

Lolita
Vladimir Nabokov
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Lord of the Flies
William Golding

The Lord of the Rings
J.R.R. Tolkien
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Loving
Henry Green
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Lucky Jim
Kingsley Amis
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The Man Who Loved Children
Christina Stead
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Midnight's Children
Salman Rushdie

Money
Martin Amis
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The Moviegoer
Walker Percy
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Mrs. Dalloway
Virginia Woolf

Naked Lunch
William Burroughs
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Native Son
Richard Wright
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Neuromancer
William Gibson

Never Let Me Go
Kazuo Ishiguro
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1984
George Orwell
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O - R
On the Road
Jack Kerouac
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One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest
Ken Kesey
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The Painted Bird
Jerzy Kosinski

Pale Fire
Vladimir Nabokov
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A Passage to India
E.M. Forster

Play It As It Lays
Joan Didion

Portnoy's Complaint
Philip Roth
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Possession
A.S. Byatt
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The Power and the Glory
Graham Greene

The Prime of Miss Jean Brodie
Muriel Spark
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Rabbit, Run
John Updike
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Ragtime
E.L. Doctorow
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The Recognitions
William Gaddis
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Red Harvest
Dashiell Hammett

Revolutionary Road
Richard Yates

S - T
The Sheltering Sky
Paul Bowles
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Slaughterhouse-Five
Kurt Vonnegut
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Snow Crash
Neal Stephenson

The Sot-Weed Factor
John Barth

The Sound and the Fury
William Faulkner

The Sportswriter
Richard Ford
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The Spy Who Came in From the Cold
John le Carre
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The Sun Also Rises
Ernest Hemingway
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Their Eyes Were Watching God
Zora Neale Hurston
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Things Fall Apart
Chinua Achebe

To Kill a Mockingbird
Harper Lee
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To the Lighthouse
Virginia Woolf
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Tropic of Cancer
Henry Miller
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U - W
Ubik
Philip K. Dick

Under the Net
Iris Murdoch

Under the Volcano
Malcolm Lowry
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Watchmen
Alan Moore & Dave Gibbons

White Noise
Don DeLillo
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White Teeth
Zadie Smith
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Wide Sargasso Sea
Jean Rhys


source: Lev Grossman from TIME

Friday, December 26, 2008

truth . love . grace









“What, gone without a word? Ay, so true love should do; it cannot speak, For truth hath better deeds than words to grace it” - Shakespeare

Kahlil Gibran...." But let there be spaces in your togetherness...and let the winds [flow] between you....and stand together yet not too near together; for the pillars of the temple stand apart, and the oak tree and the cypress grow not in each other's shadow." -The Prophet

Monday, December 22, 2008

Monday, December 15, 2008

Hope Has Feathers




"Hope" is the thing with feathers
That perches in the soul
And sings the tune without the words
And never stops at all,

- Emily Dickinson


-dedicated to the women in my life struggling with addiction - hoping for the miracle of sobriety - and willing to do the work

Friday, December 12, 2008

Where the Parties Are


Best Link In My Opinion










http://www.washingtonian.com/blogarticles/people/capitalcomment/10034.html

Ms. Virginia 2008 (Int'l Galaxy) to Attend President's Inaugural Ball in Washington, DC


http://www.presidentsball.com/

VIP appearance by Ms. Virginia International Galaxy 2008
(Ms. Congeniality Winner in International Pageant)


Photos to Come.
Now, the big question.... "who will she wear?"

January 21st - Inauguration Day of President-Elect Barack Obama
7:30 - 1 a.m.
See receiving line/VIP table for photo ops.

Thursday, December 11, 2008

illusion of our separateness


These came today from a friend for me to ponder. Join in.







We are here to awaken from the illusion of our separateness.
— Thich Nhat Hanh, French-based Vietnamese Buddhist monk, peace activist and author (b. 1926)

A human being is a part of a whole, called by us _universe_, a part limited in time and space. He experiences himself, his thoughts and feelings as something separated from the rest... a kind of optical delusion of his consciousness. This delusion is a kind of prison for us, restricting us to our personal desires and to affection for a few persons nearest to us. Our task must be to free ourselves from this prison by widening our circle of compassion to embrace all living creatures and the whole of nature in its beauty. –Einstein

In separateness lies the world's great misery; in compassion lies the world's true strength.-- Buddha

I am a little pencil in the hand of a writing God who is sending a love letter to the world.— Mother Teresa

It is so fatally easy to confuse an aesthetic appreciation of the spiritual life with the life itself—to dream that you have waked, washed, and dressed and then to find yourself still in bed. - C.S. Lewis

Sunday, December 7, 2008

in need of grace

I do not at all understand the mystery of grace - only that it meets us where we are but does not leave us where it found us.


Anne Lamott is one of the most graceful and "in your face" writers I've come across. When I sit to write she is with me sometimes, when I'm not being honest enough. She's rough around the edges. She likes to live in her head. She likes to isolate. She likes to be alone with her HP. We are a lot alike.

She encourages me to stop holding back too much. And when I've given too much away, something I've done just recently, she lets me see it at a learning experience - one I won't repeat. I can grab it back, claim and own it, and make it mine again. Not doing it the same way twice.

She says to get what I need from within. To not look to others to find the answers I need - or to give me the validation that must come from within. This, all in her books about grace. If I stick to her definition of grace I won't lose my sense of self... and neither will you.

She inspires me to want to "get" grace. I look up to her as another women in recovery of addictions, and I hope to pass on what she's passed on to me.

In her words....

I do not at all understand the mystery of grace - only that it meets us where we are but does not leave us where it found us.

Friday, December 5, 2008

Booking 2009 Speaking Engagements!


Simple Grace - Daily Joys
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what are you wearing inauguration day??!!



inauguration info below.... since many of you know i'm in the dc area i have been overwhelmed with excited questions about what the big events are all about....where will they be.... what will i wear.....where am i going..... how many balls are there? here's the best info i could gather. of course, in a "list."

oh, Valentino, of course :)

Presidential Inaugural Balls
A Celebration of Change Gala
A Time For Hope Inaugural Jazz Gala
All American Ball
American Indian Ball
Arizona Presidential Inaugural Ball
Arkansas State Society Ball
Be The Change Inaugural Ball
Black Tie and Boots Ball
Bytes and Books Ball
Change Has Come Inaugural Gala
Commander-In-Chief Ball
Constitution Ball
Democracy Ball
Freedom Ball
Garden State Inaugural Gala
George Washington University Ball
Hawaii State Society Inaugural Ball
HBCU Inaugural Gala Ball
Heroes Red, White, and Blue Ball
Historic Inaugural Ball
History in the Making Inaugural Ball
Illinois Presidential Inaugural Gala
Inaugural Peace Ball
Independence Ball
Indiana State Society Inaugural Gala
International Conservation Caucus Foundation Gala
Kentucky Bluegrass Ball
Land of Enchantment Inaugural Ball
Liberty Ball
Link Live Presidential Inaugural Gala
North Carolina Society Inaugural Gala
Ohio Inaugural Celebration
Patriot Ball
Pearl Presidential Inaugural Gala
Pennsylvania Inaugural Gala
South Carolina Inaugural Ball
Spirit of Hope Inaugural Ball
Stars and Stripes Ball
Sunshine and Stars Florida Ball
The Change Has Come Presidential Inaugural Gala
The Creative Coalition Gala Inaugural Ball
The Inaugural Purple Ball
The Presidents Ball
Unity in Service Inaugural Ball
Veterans Inaugural Ball

Other Inauguration Events
Inaugural Parade
Swearing In Ceremony

Try this LINK
http://www.greatseats.com/inauguration/inaugural_ball_tickets.htm

Wednesday, December 3, 2008

i want to know what you ache for


The Invitation

It doesn't interest me what you do for a living
I want to know what you ache for
and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart's longing.

It doesn't interest me how old you are
I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool
for love
for your dreams
for the adventure of being alive.

It doesn't interest me what planets are squaring your moon...
I want to know if you have touched the center of your own sorrow
if you have been opened by life's betrayals
or have become shrivelled and closed
from fear of further pain.

I want to know if you can sit with pain
mine or your own
without moving to hide it
or fade it
or fix it.

I want to know if you can be with joy
mine or your own
if you can dance with wildness
and let the ecstasy fill you to the tips of your
fingers and toes
without cautioning us to
be careful
be realistic
to remember the limitations of being human.

It doesn't interest me if the story you are telling me
is true.
I want to know if you can
disappoint another
to be true to yourself.
If you can bear the accusation of betrayal
and not betray your own soul.
If you can be faithless
and therefore trustworthy.

I want to know if you can see Beauty
even when it is not pretty
every day.
And if you can source your own life
from its presence.

I want to know if you can live with failure
yours and mine
and still stand on the edge of the lake
and shout to the silver of the full moon,
"Yes."

It doesn't interest me
to know where you live or how much money you have.
I want to know if you can get up
after a night of grief and despair
weary and bruised to the bone
and do what needs to be done
to feed the children.

It doesn't interest me who you know
or how you came to be here.
I want to know if you will stand
in the center of the fire
with me
and not shrink back.

It doesn't interest me where or what or with whom
you have studied.
I want to know what sustains you
from the inside
when all else falls away.

I want to know if you can be alone
with yourself
and if you truly like the company you keep
in the empty moments.


gratitude to my mentor Oriah

Monday, December 1, 2008

being in silence...waiting



the theme in my life in 2008 is, and has been, indecision. suggestion is "just sit in it." so i do. i sit and listen and the answers come.

when in it, i sit and wait. this helps. it is what i am doing.

No answer is also an answer.
–Danish proverb


sometimes the answers aren’t immediate or guaranteed. Sometimes the best answer is no answer, meaning we need to stay in an uncomfortable situation a little longer.

perhaps there is something we need to learn that can’t be learned unless we find it on our own.

we aren’t abandoned when our prayers & meditations & thoughts are answered by silence.

silence teaches us to listen closer, observe longer, and learn more in order to find our answers.

silence is a most difficult place for me. but when i don't have the answer an acceptable answer for the moment is: nothing. letting the silence wash over me. waiting.